A little delayed but well worth the post. Ryan and I spent a
wonderful weekend in March in good ‘ole Bonita Springs, Florida. We got to
spend some time with the Mama, cousin JoAnn, Gram and Gramps and we even
crossed paths with Stephanie as well as Kelli who flew down for a few days. It
was a much needed vaca from frigid Chi-town…something we have learned we have
to do in the winter, EVERY winter, in order to maintain our sanity.
It was so nice to spend time with the family and just relax. Of course, in true Benson style, we partook in many activities including daily bike rides, maybe even a run here or there, fishing, a concert, some dancing, some shopping at our favorite store and even some parasailing.
First run in a long while...
A bass fisherman….
Ahh parasailing…what can I say? I’ve
always wanted to do it and now I can say I have and it was quite exhilarating.
Bless Ryan’s heart, I think that he had white knuckles the entire time we were
up there and I can’t say that I was too relaxed flying around either! Of
course, we chose to do the higher parasail for longer because if your going to
do it, then do it up but as the minutes ticked by while we hung out in the sky,
it became clear to us that we probably won’t be doing this again until we have
kiddo’s. Don’t get me wrong, if you’ve never parasailed, you should definitely
do it and it helped that we had great company to parasail with but it was
definitely scarier than we thought it would be. Let’s just say, I don’t think
I’ll be jumping out of a plane or partaking in any other wild outdoor sports
involving parachutes or bungee cords for a while. We got some great videos! Check them out below!
Kelli & Karen
Far, Far Away!
Taking a dip...
Dancing kicks...
Family time with the sister :)
Kelli and the Mama :)
Ryan and Whitney Parasailing!
We saw lots of wildlife. Some dolphins, turtles (Ryan even
caught one accidently with his expert fishing skills…I won’t go into that
traumatizing story) and a gator ortwo. Although
it wasn’t nearly enough time, overall it was really nice to spend some time
with Mama Benson and the rest of the family and we are very much looking
forward to May when we can expect them to come home and be closer to us. I have
to say as time goes on, everyone living in different places is starting to get
old and I find myself far more nostalgic for our family these days. I think
this is just further compounded in the winter when the snowbirds depart for
Florida so perhaps with their migration home, it will make it easier to have
more family just a car ride away. There just isn’t enough time or money to
visit everyone all the time and foster the relationships we wish we could have
as Auntie and Uncle. So with that being said, give everyone a hug and kiss
tonight from us and let’s start utilizing the some technology here and Facetime
a little more often :)
So it was off to the turtle races we go and might I add,
what a hoot! Our friend Kate nonchalantly informed us of this bar, while we
were driving by it one Sunday afternoon. Of course as soon as we discovered
something as ridiculous as turtle racing existed in the Chicago city limits,
Ryan and I were game to check it out! After a sushi dinner, we arrived at the
bar and it was packed. The beauty of the bar is everyone has a chance to
partake in the turtle racing and your chances only increase with the more
drinks one consumes; you can imagine…it’s quite a drunken mess. The more
drinks one buys, the more raffle tickets you’re given and anyone who knows me knows I am a total sucker
for “winning” anything. I consider myself pretty unlucky when it comes to winning
games via blind luck. However, Ryan on the other hand, seems to be the luckiest
and always wins the big bucks in casinos playing mere penny slot machines. With
my husband as my lucky charm at my side we were called upon to represent the turtle Lucky Dan, in the races. Oddly, turtle
racing is quite exciting and the MC was pretty awesome. Of course, the turtles
don’t always want to participate so rules have to be bent in order to move onto
the next race. I was pretty stoked that we got second place, even though we
didn’t actually win anything. Overall, I was pretty proud of our Lucky Dan and we will most definitely do this again! Check out our video
below.
Stocking up on Raffle Tickets
Sushi Boats prior to the races!
The boys
Later on that weekend, we went to my former primaries first
birthday party. While I don't think the parent's would care about me posting their names considering they frequently tag me on Facebook in stuff, I won't per Hippa. When I first started working in the NICU almost 3 years ago, I
took care of a little babe. It was so long ago, that I was actually on day
shift at the time and got to spend time with her parents and family. She
was in the NICU for a brief time and then got to go home to her family. Fast-forward
a little more than a year and my primary was born. When you choose to primary a
baby, you are choosing to work with that baby every time you work in order to
provide consistent care. Any baby can have a primary but usually it is the
young, little babies that people choose to pick up. Overall, I think it makes
the parents experience a little better because they know who their baby is with
while they can’t always be there.
My primary was born quite a bit earlier than her sister and
was a teeny little babe. I was so touched when they asked about me in the first
weeks of her life. I couldn’t believe that I had made any sort of lasting
impression on them, considering her older sister’s stay was on the shorter end
of a NICU visit. By then, I had gone to the dark side of nights but I immediately
remembered them and decided that I would pick my little babe up as my primary. I
spent many months with little miss, helping her finish growing outside of mama,
teaching her to breath on her own and helping fatten her up. We also did many
an art project with her, highlighting her milestones and triumphs and I am
happy to report that they still display her caterpillar milestone chart in her
bedroom at home! It was so nice to be invited to her first birthday and to see
her older sister who I also took care of in the NICU. It was also really nice
to see her family again and for Ryan to get to see how awesome my job truly is
and the great relationships we make with our babies and their families. All and
all, it was a pretty fun day and always very exciting to see how far our kiddos
have come after they leave the NICU.
At the Brisk Brew Festival!
Oddly, after our one-year-old birthday party that we
attended, we went to the other extreme and attended a winter beer festival down
the street from us. Chicago summers are always amazing partly due to the weekly
festivals they have so it was kind of a treat to get to attend a festival
literally down the block from us in the middle of winter; it was nice and cozy
too in a heated tent. A little bit crowded, probably because everyone else had
the same idea as we had but it was a great way to try a bunch of brews for a
decent price. I think Ryan got discounted tickets in a Groupon but I believe
tickets were around $25 and that included like 13 samples of beers and the sample glass
was a pretty decent size. The beers were pretty potent as well so I definitely
wasn’t able to use up all my drink tickets. I think we will definitely go to
this again next year.
I will work on adding to the blog posts! Sorry I am so
delayed all the time!